Tuesday, November 30, 2021
Sunday, November 28, 2021
The Four Bodhisattva Vows
ostentatiousness | grudge | gambling | ingratitude |
dipsomania | ambition | dominance | faithlessness |
manipulation | stinginess | pessimism | hostility |
abuse | debasement | sexual lust | sarcasm |
humiliation | jealousy | gluttony | unruliness |
hurt | cruelty | unkindness | laziness |
envy | indifference | negativity | furtiveness |
sadism | enviousness | derision | falseness |
high-handedness | know-it-all | rage | aggression |
rapacity | effrontery | disrespectfulness | hard-heartedness |
eagerness for power | lying | insidiousness | self-denial |
inattentiveness | contempt | wrath | haughtiness |
greed for money | seducement | vindictiveness | insatiability |
voluptuousness | excessiveness | censoriousness | dissatisfaction |
egoism | ignorance | hatred | greed |
impudence | imposture | cursing | imperiousness |
lecherousness | callousness | malignancy | torment |
intolerance | blasphemy | shamelessness | irresponsibility |
obsession | prejudice | arrogance | violent temper |
garrulity | dogmatism | presumption | intransigence |
oppression | prodigality | lack of comprehension | obstinacy |
pride | conceitedness | delusion | quarrelsomeness |
self-hatred | violence | vanity | hypocrisy |
stubbornness | baseness | pretence | mercilessness |
disrespect | ridicule | masochism | tyranny |
capriciousness | deceit | anger | discord |
calculation | unyielding | desire for fame | deception |
Thursday, November 25, 2021
Response to a Nichiren Shu believer.
To my slanderous critics, my answer to your vitriol and hatred towards me...
Namu Myoho renge kyo and study the Lotus Sutra and Gosho. Use the Gosho and the Lotus Sutra to refute me not your emotional opinions, otherwise it is dust in the wind. When you rebuke me, since I back up my assertions with the Lotus Sutra and writings of Nichiren, you are rebuking the teachings and surely will fall into the lower realms.
Lets not criticize SGI members they chant Daimoku
Spouse is SGI maniac causing trouble in our marriage
Hi All,
Wanted to bring my story here. I am married to my spouse for 6+ Years. She has been a staunch SGI member with annual donations and volunteer activities such as FNCC, Bykeren, hosting and district memberships.
Few things I have observed
She is a staunch feminist outside but fails to see Gender roles in SGI such as Gajokai and Byekeren
She is pragmatic but truely believes that chanting can change the world but she herself has lost the empathy and gratitude. She is more lost and self centered in general
SGI seems to be making her donate $5000+ a year. She says she is dojng by her own. She is like more I do, better the cause but it is actually quite the opposite. She would go to thrift store to buy clothes but will donate 5K. She has her eyebrows raised if I have to support 5K a year for my aging parents but she can donate 5K to SGI (ofcourse her own earned money). I am not financially in bad shape, it is just different rules and priorities that hits me
There have been incidents where I was sleeping, she woke me up just because she wants me to look after a kid as she wants to attend and present weekly meeting disregarding the facts that I am more sleep deprived due to my schedule. When conversations get heated and went so far that she almost pressed charges on me while I am feeling being emotionally abused here. I think she was so much focussed on SGI that she has lost any empathy for people around her. Not sure if I am a bad person and want people to choose what they like but if it starts affecting your life, I feel helpless.
The last incident has ensured that I cannot question her on this and if I do, the situation is such that I will be in trouble.
I have seen lots of trouble in their districts and politics with appointment of roles, it makes me cringe how people want power and control in the name of religion,
I am suffering in the marriage. I love my child and I will not be able to live without him so I am not even thinking of letting go of it. Moreover, I want family to be together but SGI seems to be a big thorn in what used to be a happy marriage. I want the same person to get out of SGI but I cannot influence that. This cult is ruining my personal life. As long as she is active member and prioritizes family over SGI, I am okay with it (as long as you are praying and chanting only). Anything beyond that is something making th entire family suffer.